Laura,
I do believe that most people do try to do things the correct way when they know what to do. I started in Jan. 1970 as an art major someone asked me to photograph their wedding, it has been a long and wonderful journey, with many ups and downs and I learn new things every day.
I found this on another forum it was written by Cheryl Jacobs, one of the best fine art photographers I have seen in a long time,
“- Never compare your journey with someone else's. It's a marathon with no finish line. Someone else may start out faster than you, may seem to progress more quickly than you, but every runner has his own pace. Your journey is your journey, not a competition. You will never "arrive". No one ever does.
Hang in there; it is worth the ride,
Wayne
Photography by Design