This is kind of a rant and also a question for you sports guys out there.
A little history, I know almost every ump by first name. I know almost every coach by first name we are a big family and if I don't I introduce myself and ask permission to be on the field, I don't even cheer my sons team on when I am on the field. I am a registered volunteer with the little league in my town (background check and all) and have been a coach several times including this regular season.
Last year during the fall my son was playing at a particular field, we were on the first base line and I needed to shoot a lefty down third base. I had been on the field for 4 innings with no problems. When i switched sides the opposing coach (and board member) stopped the game to ask the umps permission again. I told him not to stop the game I would leave because that would not be fair to the kids to break the pace of the game for me ( I was pissed but he owns the rules since he was a coach and board member). So I left the field and went back to my side.
After the game the coach / board member approached me and told me I didn't have to leave the game and that I was making a bigger deal out of it than I had to but I had never been spoken to with such disrespect and I had already gained permission from the umps but had forgotten to introduce myself to him and that was wrong of me.
Fast forward to tonight..I had been shooting two games at this same park (on the field) with no problems. Saw all my regular coaches/umps said hello, everything was good. When my son's team took the field the third base ump came up to me and asked me politely to leave the field I started to get pissy and then just left the field and walked away. As the ump was talking to me I looked over and the same board member from the fall was watching me and I realized what had happened. I went to the ump between innings and apologized if I was rude to him and I understood it was this board member who wanted me out and he confirmed this guy had come up to them before the game and told them I couldn't be on the field unless I asked him and said he was sorry but the guy was the board member and he as the ump had to follow his instructions.
This board member avoided me like the plague the rest of the night. Would not look at me, walked around buildings to avoid having to face me. I was told he is just the nicest guy but follows the rules to a "T" but my experiences have been anything but friendly.
So here is the question. Does anyone know the rules for Little League Baseball, does he as a board member have the right to remove me from the filed if I have not in ANY way interfered with the game, the umps have given me permission to be on the field and parents have come to expect me to be on the field to capture their kids? Or does it sound like I have just pissed off the wrong guy
Be honest with me..if am I wrong and just need to shut up and take it I will or does this sound like a legitimate complaint on my part?