Why are

[MarieJasmine]

all the nice guys gay or taken?

[Lilikoi the cat]

Better go cruise the middle school.
It is just the way it is, don't worry and don't rush.
he is out there.

[MarieJasmine]

hah Im not in middle school.

[Lilikoi the cat]

Yes, HS but you have to go backwards before they are all taken,like "Back to the future".
that's a joke you know.

[windrivermaiden]

Honey, before you find the right guy, you have to find yourself. Indulge in figuring out who you are and be your self. Never compromise on being your self for anyone. It just doesn't work.

Get your education in what you want to do. You are young. You will never get the chance to take chances the way you can right now. Allow your self to take this time and make the most of every opprotunity that comes along. Travel, take risks. Open your eyes and see all the world around you and LIVE.

The right guy, the one who will appreciate the whole you, and not just the sexy cute unstressed youthful you (which disappears, btw...and faster than you'll ever believe) will come along, but you won't recognize him if you don't know your self. The amazing woman you are to become is still forming, you want to wait and find the guy who will match that woman, shoulder to shoulder, day to day, good and bad. Second best is not good enough.

Remember you are not shopping for shoes that can go out of fashion in a year or two with out much concequence. Every date is a job interview for the most important job that will ever touch your life. You can't rush this. You can't find one who's outside looks good and think you can change the insides either.

Patience.

[Killjoy]

Originally Posted by windrivermaiden

You can't rush this. You can't find one who's outside looks good and think you can change the insides either.

Patience.

How does the old saying go?
A man marries a woman expecting her to never change, and she always does.
A woman marries a man expecting she can change him, and he never does.

You sound like you need a vacation from your area Marie. Sort of a "get away from it all" kind of thing.

There are some good ones out there. But as Windy said, you are young, and have plenty of time to wonder about many other things before you have to worry about that. :w00t:

Have fun. Enjoy yourself.

[MarieJasmine]

I don't even remeber posting this, ha, dude insomnia doesnt do go things for the mind

ahh.

hmm thanks everyonnnee

[Killjoy]

Here's a book for future reference

Here's a book for future reference

[windrivermaiden]

Was That One A Good Read? Girls These Days Need All The Help They Can Get...boys Too.

[Killjoy]

I don't really know. :p

I saw it during a news show this morning, looked it up, and threw the link out there.
Thought it applied.

[Abel]

Originally Posted by Killjoy

How does the old saying go?
A man marries a woman expecting her to never change, and she always does.
A woman marries a man expecting she can change him, and he never does.

classic....

Keep your head Marie...

[imported_Truckman]

I'm certainly not ghey or taken...But I don't often get accused of being a nice guy either......Ben