The route to the internet is totally dependant on it's capability to resolve DNS names. So, if you setup a static link and ommit the DNS Name and WINS. On the wired network on your laptop make your gateway the IP of the Server. NO DNS. Then connect to the server using the IP Address and not the WINS Name.
On the Wireless keep it as you have it.
Then again you could use IPS/SPX or another protocol like NETBEUI "Depending on your OS". But I ask the question, why use wireless when you can uwse wired? Wired is much fast, more secure and has a heck of a lot less overhead in errorant packets.
The trick to all this is setting up the correct IP Gateway, and Static IP's. The other simple solution which will cost a few dollars is to get another network card in you server and multihom it. Setup 2 differnt IP's and do the above.
Hopefully I explained that well enough, as I can't think striaght because I'm so freakin' congested I can hardly read the screen..
