I definitely like the second image you posted.
I personally learned quite a few things from the Elements website. I did learn something about creating a little bit of a added dof. Now this might be a little different for what your using, and I might not remember all of it, but give it a shot.
-You start off by duplicating the background
-Then you apply some Gaussian blur to the new layer.
-Next select all on that layer (Ctrl A)
-Then save the selection as a pattern. In elements its under Edit.
-You can delete this layer now.
-Create a duplicate layer again.
-Select the Pattern Stamp Tool
-Select the pattern you had just saved a few steps up and then just start painting in the layer where you want.
This might not be the best way to do it, but you can see my results on another thread.
http://www.texasphotoforum.com/forum...ad.php?t=69346
I used this technique on the second image, along with some cropping.
Anyways, hope this helps.
Cheers
here I applied it some ...
I probably could have done a more thorough job, but hopefully this will help you get the general idea of the technique.